Question: I want to approach women I find attractive in clubs and bars, but 9 out of 10 times, I chicken out. How can I overcome this?
Answer: You're describing "Approach Anxiety," a psychological condition that begins after you see a woman you find attractive. You become panicky and tense and you cannot move.
You worry, "What will I say? What will she say? And what if she rejects me?" These negative thoughts become so monumentally overwhelming that your whole body battles against you talking to this gorgeous woman.
Be aware that this mental process happens in all guys. But, there are known ways for conquering this affliction. The best advice is to approach within three seconds before you give yourself time to talk yourself out of it.
Question: Why are women usually asking me, "can we just be friends?"
Answer: Your problem is so common that there is a tried and true method for overcoming it. The basic issue is that these women are losing attraction for you and then downgrading your sexual status to that of a friend, instead of a lover.
However, you don't any longer need to feel as though women aren't attracted to you. The answer is not to go through life without a girlfriend. Rather, the answer is to heighten her attraction by flipping on her mental attraction switches. The three universal female attraction switches are:
1. "Pre-selection" - or to demonstrate to her that other women desire you. 2. "The Leader of Men" - or portraying to her that you're a competent man who makes decisions and leads people. 3. "A Nurturer" - showing her that you take care of and think often about the needs of your friends and family.
Once you have flipped these switches, her attraction is no longer a choice but a must. Mastering these attraction switches allows you to fully experience the comforting sensation of being an attractive man.
Question: How can I be sure that I will be able to kiss a woman or go even further on a date?
Answer: This challenge boils down to the woman's sense of feeling awkward. Women are very attune to their emotions. If your presence makes them uncomfortable they'll feel that you "aren't meant to be." After this happens you'll NEVER be able to progress on to the physical stages of dating.
Most women if they feel properly comfortable with you and are attracted to you will feel ready to kiss and become physical much sooner than you might expect. The best advice is that if she shows you several signs of interests over the course of a date then she probably wants to kiss you. - 15784
Answer: You're describing "Approach Anxiety," a psychological condition that begins after you see a woman you find attractive. You become panicky and tense and you cannot move.
You worry, "What will I say? What will she say? And what if she rejects me?" These negative thoughts become so monumentally overwhelming that your whole body battles against you talking to this gorgeous woman.
Be aware that this mental process happens in all guys. But, there are known ways for conquering this affliction. The best advice is to approach within three seconds before you give yourself time to talk yourself out of it.
Question: Why are women usually asking me, "can we just be friends?"
Answer: Your problem is so common that there is a tried and true method for overcoming it. The basic issue is that these women are losing attraction for you and then downgrading your sexual status to that of a friend, instead of a lover.
However, you don't any longer need to feel as though women aren't attracted to you. The answer is not to go through life without a girlfriend. Rather, the answer is to heighten her attraction by flipping on her mental attraction switches. The three universal female attraction switches are:
1. "Pre-selection" - or to demonstrate to her that other women desire you. 2. "The Leader of Men" - or portraying to her that you're a competent man who makes decisions and leads people. 3. "A Nurturer" - showing her that you take care of and think often about the needs of your friends and family.
Once you have flipped these switches, her attraction is no longer a choice but a must. Mastering these attraction switches allows you to fully experience the comforting sensation of being an attractive man.
Question: How can I be sure that I will be able to kiss a woman or go even further on a date?
Answer: This challenge boils down to the woman's sense of feeling awkward. Women are very attune to their emotions. If your presence makes them uncomfortable they'll feel that you "aren't meant to be." After this happens you'll NEVER be able to progress on to the physical stages of dating.
Most women if they feel properly comfortable with you and are attracted to you will feel ready to kiss and become physical much sooner than you might expect. The best advice is that if she shows you several signs of interests over the course of a date then she probably wants to kiss you. - 15784
About the Author:
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