These secrets are the things that women wish men understood but will rarely tell you. But a word of caution: Understanding these five things will give you an edge over almost every other man she knows.
1. She Wants to be Emotionally Swept Away, Not Just Impressed
Ever been on a date where you said the most interesting things about your life only to figure out she only wants to be your friend? Men think girls have a laundry list of things that we have to achieve. In reality, women want you to stimulate them emotionally. Men understand words with facts while women understand with emotion. When you talk to her, make her journey through the story with you.
2. She Relies on You to Make Her Feel Comfortable
A woman will stay clear from any awkward situation. The comfort you have yourself has absolute effect on her own. You must have comfort with her if you wish to win her over mentally, emotionally, and physically. Keep the conversation light at first and avoid topics of huge plans for the future as they may make her uncomfortable.
3. Dont Argue, Its Pointless. Often She Doesnt Even Know Why Shes Feeling Emotional
Ever try to argue with a woman only to become increasingly frustrated because she just didnt get your logical arguments? When a woman is upset, she is not thinking logically and therefore what she says may not make sense and probably wont even be close to whats really bothering her. When a woman is upset, she wants one thing " reassurance. She relies on you for that reassurance. So, give her a hug that says Im here for you and youre not alone and make her feel safe. When she begins to calm down, then you can discuss the point at hand. Its usually a good idea to ask her about her day or anything else thats going on with her so that you can get to the root of whats bugging her.
4. She Is Just As (If Not More) Sexual Than You Are. Its Just Compartmentalized
Yes guys, the good news: Women love sex. But there is one key difference between women and men when it comes to that and its not what you think. Women are a bit more sexually and emotionally complex than we are and as such, their sexuality is experienced differently. It doesnt take as much to stimulate men. Women, on the other hand, compartmentalize their sexual thinking. She keeps it in one particular place in her mind which is locked away until the right time or the right key comes along. If you bear the key that unlocks that place, the floodgates open and youre the one with whom she shares her most intimate thoughts, feelings, and desires.
5. She Expects You to Respect Her and You Better Respect Yourself First
This becomes more true when she shares her entire self with you. Trust and respect are essential. Never try to control her. Respect her by following through with promises. When she can rely on you, you know there is special bond. - 15784
1. She Wants to be Emotionally Swept Away, Not Just Impressed
Ever been on a date where you said the most interesting things about your life only to figure out she only wants to be your friend? Men think girls have a laundry list of things that we have to achieve. In reality, women want you to stimulate them emotionally. Men understand words with facts while women understand with emotion. When you talk to her, make her journey through the story with you.
2. She Relies on You to Make Her Feel Comfortable
A woman will stay clear from any awkward situation. The comfort you have yourself has absolute effect on her own. You must have comfort with her if you wish to win her over mentally, emotionally, and physically. Keep the conversation light at first and avoid topics of huge plans for the future as they may make her uncomfortable.
3. Dont Argue, Its Pointless. Often She Doesnt Even Know Why Shes Feeling Emotional
Ever try to argue with a woman only to become increasingly frustrated because she just didnt get your logical arguments? When a woman is upset, she is not thinking logically and therefore what she says may not make sense and probably wont even be close to whats really bothering her. When a woman is upset, she wants one thing " reassurance. She relies on you for that reassurance. So, give her a hug that says Im here for you and youre not alone and make her feel safe. When she begins to calm down, then you can discuss the point at hand. Its usually a good idea to ask her about her day or anything else thats going on with her so that you can get to the root of whats bugging her.
4. She Is Just As (If Not More) Sexual Than You Are. Its Just Compartmentalized
Yes guys, the good news: Women love sex. But there is one key difference between women and men when it comes to that and its not what you think. Women are a bit more sexually and emotionally complex than we are and as such, their sexuality is experienced differently. It doesnt take as much to stimulate men. Women, on the other hand, compartmentalize their sexual thinking. She keeps it in one particular place in her mind which is locked away until the right time or the right key comes along. If you bear the key that unlocks that place, the floodgates open and youre the one with whom she shares her most intimate thoughts, feelings, and desires.
5. She Expects You to Respect Her and You Better Respect Yourself First
This becomes more true when she shares her entire self with you. Trust and respect are essential. Never try to control her. Respect her by following through with promises. When she can rely on you, you know there is special bond. - 15784
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