Monday, November 3, 2008

If You Think Your Spouse Might Be Cheating,Here's How To Find Out

By Phil Burnett

Recently we have been receiving a number of emails from people wondering how they can find out if their spouse is cheating on them. There's actually an easy way to do this - if you have any suspicious, you owe it to yourself to find out the truth about your relationship.

You might be surprised to find out how many people are now using private investigators to uncover if their partner is cheating on them. This can be expensive and take a long time to get answers - you don't need to go this far to know the truth! Always try this "detective's trick" first if you want to know whether your partner is playing around.

This method is quick, incredibly simple and will barely cost you a dime. There are only three steps you need to follow so let's go over each of them one-by-one.

Step #1 - Is Your Spouse Cheating On You?

Ready to play detective?!? In this first step you are going to need to get a hold of your spouse's cell phone for around 15 minutes. Make sure you have enough time to look at it without worrying about getting "caught".

Make sure you pick a good time! Your spouse might have just jumped in the shower or is out with friends without their phone. Just make sure you have about 15 minutes to yourself.

Now that you have their phone in hand you are going to look at their call history that is stored on their phone. You want to look for both the 'incoming' and 'outgoing' call history list. When you find it, write down every phone number that you see on a piece of paper.

If there are some phone numbers you recognize you don't have to write them down. Just make sure you are jotting down every other phone number you see.

Once you have your list complete, it's time to put back the phone and go on to the next step.

Step #2 - How To Find Out If Your Spouse Is Cheating

In front of you there should be a list of all the phone numbers that your spouse has either called or been called by. Now it's time to figure who is behind each of these numbers and find out exactly who they have been talking to. With only a phone number, you can find out someone's full name, address, location details and background information.

There are businesses that put together massive databases of every phone number out there (including unlisted and cell phone numbers). They purchase access to these phone records, build their databases and then let anyone run a search on any phone number.

This type of search is call a "reverse phone lookup" and is done online right from your computer. You just enter the phone number and the person's full details (name, address etc) is shown on your computer screen.

You can try a free sample search by using the link that we have included at the bottom of this article. This will show you exactly how it works.

As you have probably guessed, there is a fee for this service. It's not expensive though. The cheapest way to use it is to find a company that offers unlimited searches for a one-time only charge. This way you are only billed once and can run a search on as many phone numbers as you want.

Run down your entire list and conduct a search on each phone number. Make sure to write down the information you find out about each one on the same piece of paper.

After you have finished doing this, it's time to move on to our final step.

Step #3 - Is Your Spouse A Cheater?

This last step is where you can to "put it all together". Once you have a list showing exactly who your spouse has been talking you, I can guarantee that anything suspicious will jump off the page at you.

Look over your sheet of paper and all the names that are on it. Many people that think their spouse is cheating on them have a person in mind that they think they might be cheating with. If this is the case, do you see this name on your list?

It's easy to figure out if your spouse is cheating on you once you know who they have been talking to. This easy "detective's work" will get you the answers you need about your relationship and whether your spouse is being truly faithful to you. - 15784

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