It doesn't seem like it takes too much these days for a man to drop a woman suddenly and then start on what he feels is a better life without her. Sometimes, he does this just because she has given him the chance to do so. Other times it happens because love is blind and in the beginning she just was unable to see the real him through her everything-is-perfect colored glasses.
Here, we will discuss 3 really bad and preventable reasons some men leave their girl high and dry. These reasons, though they are selfish and maybe even cruel on the man's part, can be traced back to the beginning of the relationship when the woman still had some say.
For sure, these reasons are bad ones and any guy who uses them, in the final analysis, is an idiot. Still, these guys are around and so we girls have to be aware of them and their warped senses of reasoning.
She Doesn't Impress His Friends and/or Associates
A lot of guys are insecure enough to not be confident making a pick on who they would like to spend forever with unless this Miss Right meets the approval of their friends.
A problem will arise if his friends change their minds or if he happen to move up, or down to a new set of friends who don't take to her. In his zeal to make sure he has the best mate, he will have to quit his relationship with this unapproved woman and find one his friends are comfortable with.
She's No Longer The Hot Body She Once Was
Unfortunately, it never comes to many people's minds that they will ever age. At first the two lovers could never look at anyone else because they are so taken with the physical attributes of each other. They are, in each others minds.... Perfect!
So, the years move on and often we can all do without the changes this brings about. Some woman try hard to fight aging but at the same time there are some guys who just don't care about it at all. All they want is that good old hot-and-heavy type of romance back. So, they look for and usually find it somewhere else. This means, as hard as it is to figure out in the beginning, you've got to know if this guy has more to offer than a good sturdy libido.
This Place is Driving Me Crazy!
Here's mistake number one! He/she or they want to live together in an open, or unmarried relationship and never want to make a commitment. Then, even though they both agree not to make a commitment, they start a family.
It is hard to see in the beginning when everything is rosy, if a guy happens to be one of those types that can't take the heat of having a family. So if he ends up being one of those, as soon as he is inconvenienced, out he goes. He'll leave woman, kids, dogs and cats behind in his quest to find an easier way of life.
I'm not running a church here, so I'm not going to tell anybody they shouldn't be living in sin. However, I am saying babies happen, sometimes as if by magic. No one should ever chance starting a family without a ring; or at least a prenuptial agreement. - 15784
Here, we will discuss 3 really bad and preventable reasons some men leave their girl high and dry. These reasons, though they are selfish and maybe even cruel on the man's part, can be traced back to the beginning of the relationship when the woman still had some say.
For sure, these reasons are bad ones and any guy who uses them, in the final analysis, is an idiot. Still, these guys are around and so we girls have to be aware of them and their warped senses of reasoning.
She Doesn't Impress His Friends and/or Associates
A lot of guys are insecure enough to not be confident making a pick on who they would like to spend forever with unless this Miss Right meets the approval of their friends.
A problem will arise if his friends change their minds or if he happen to move up, or down to a new set of friends who don't take to her. In his zeal to make sure he has the best mate, he will have to quit his relationship with this unapproved woman and find one his friends are comfortable with.
She's No Longer The Hot Body She Once Was
Unfortunately, it never comes to many people's minds that they will ever age. At first the two lovers could never look at anyone else because they are so taken with the physical attributes of each other. They are, in each others minds.... Perfect!
So, the years move on and often we can all do without the changes this brings about. Some woman try hard to fight aging but at the same time there are some guys who just don't care about it at all. All they want is that good old hot-and-heavy type of romance back. So, they look for and usually find it somewhere else. This means, as hard as it is to figure out in the beginning, you've got to know if this guy has more to offer than a good sturdy libido.
This Place is Driving Me Crazy!
Here's mistake number one! He/she or they want to live together in an open, or unmarried relationship and never want to make a commitment. Then, even though they both agree not to make a commitment, they start a family.
It is hard to see in the beginning when everything is rosy, if a guy happens to be one of those types that can't take the heat of having a family. So if he ends up being one of those, as soon as he is inconvenienced, out he goes. He'll leave woman, kids, dogs and cats behind in his quest to find an easier way of life.
I'm not running a church here, so I'm not going to tell anybody they shouldn't be living in sin. However, I am saying babies happen, sometimes as if by magic. No one should ever chance starting a family without a ring; or at least a prenuptial agreement. - 15784
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You now know some of the excuses men will use to dump a woman. Now find out how to get your ex interested in getting back together at: Getting Your Ex Husband Back For even more information, pay a visit to Surviving a Breakup With Someone You Love.