Friday, December 12, 2008

Cheating Married Man - Avoid Him Like a Plaque

By Sally Webb

If you haven't heard of the statistic, close to 30% of married men are in the category 'cheating married man'. They exist everywhere regardless on how or where they look for their prey. This basically means that for single women out there, chances are quite high that you will meet one of them.

Another bad news is that women are very emotional being that many women are trapped in an emotional rut of being the other woman. I said trapped because no woman intentionally has an affair with a cheating married man. Part of their conscious mind tells them that they should break it off but as you know, it is easier said than done.

So what is the best way to avoid yourself from getting into an unhealthy affair? Of course, the answer is to avoid being close to a married man in the first place to block off any chance of falling in love with him. And for those married men who do not want to reveal their status, read on to find out how you can tell a cheating married man from miles away that you can avoid him like a deadly disease.

The following are some warning signs to know whether or not you are involved -- or are close to becoming the other woman:

First sign is that he rarely make plans in advance. It is very hard for a cheating married man to make plans in advance and to actually commit to it. He would therefore cover it up saying that he is a spontaneous flexible kind of guy. This is also related to the next sign i.e.:

He seems to have little or no integrity as he often cancels in the last minute. You will start getting used to the fact that dates are not set in stones until after he shows up.

Dates are hardly during the weekend prime time i.e. Friday and Saturday nights. You also have little or no chance of spending holidays together such as Valentine's Day, Easter, Christmas and the likes (Yes he will come up with some excuses of course such as sent away on a business trip by his work).

He loves texting. He returns calls but hardly answers calls. His phone often unexpectedly dies or runs out of battery when talking with you. His phone is often dead or off when he is with you.

On top of all that, it seems that none of his friends or family actually know that your relationship exists. You probably don't even know his real address or work information -- depending on how comfortable he is in you knowing this information about him.

Lastly a sign that you should be aware of as well as all the other signs above is that a cheating married man may seem more understanding. He can complain much less about you -- or not at all. This is because he doesn't see a big future with you and also, he wants to make sure he doesn't miss a chance to be physical with you. This is why most extramarital affair relationship usually is all physical by nature.

Overall, dating is a fun experience that in my opinion worth taking the risk for. However, be aware that women especially are very emotional being. This is why rather than playing with your emotion you should just simply avoid any situation that may potentially put you in an emotional problem. Only date available men -- both physically and emotionally. - 15784

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