Most men have felt approach anxiety while out at clubs and bars. For most guys it takes over when considering to approach a woman they deem intriguing. Approach anxiety can be so overwhelming that it prevents a man from ever speaking to women.
There is a method for overcoming this social paralysis. For many approach anxiety begins as an internal negative dialouge. This mental loop can be countered with an opposing positive dialouge.
Question: "Why am I out tonight?"
Answer: "To meet women."
Question: "How can I meet women?"
Answer: "I must approach them."
Question: "If I do not approach how will I feel?"
Answer: "I won't feel good about myself and I'll view tonight as a worthless and awkward time."
Question: "How long will I think about this negative experience?
Answer: "I will think about it until I go out again and I will feel horrible."
Question: "Do I want to feel bad about myself for a while or do I want to feel awesome right now?"
Answer: "I want to feel like a rock-star, let's do this!"
Then, you must make all of your effort worthwhile, so you must act! Use the powerful negative feelings of your approach anxiety to launch you to approach. Turn your fear into your power. - 15784
There is a method for overcoming this social paralysis. For many approach anxiety begins as an internal negative dialouge. This mental loop can be countered with an opposing positive dialouge.
Question: "Why am I out tonight?"
Answer: "To meet women."
Question: "How can I meet women?"
Answer: "I must approach them."
Question: "If I do not approach how will I feel?"
Answer: "I won't feel good about myself and I'll view tonight as a worthless and awkward time."
Question: "How long will I think about this negative experience?
Answer: "I will think about it until I go out again and I will feel horrible."
Question: "Do I want to feel bad about myself for a while or do I want to feel awesome right now?"
Answer: "I want to feel like a rock-star, let's do this!"
Then, you must make all of your effort worthwhile, so you must act! Use the powerful negative feelings of your approach anxiety to launch you to approach. Turn your fear into your power. - 15784
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