Have you ever reached that point in your relationship when you find yourself asking the question: is this relationship meant to be? How do I know when it's not right for me, not meant to be? Is there any such thing as the right match?
The statistics are out there, with so many more relationships ending in divorce than we care to think about. How do we know if the person we are with is the right one? Is that uneasy feeling caused by a deep down knowing, or a fear of self?
We want to make sure that we are with someone who is good for us, and beat those almost undeniable statistics. It is not all that uncommon to question whether or not we are with the right person. What is your gut level feeling?
How do we know how much of our relationship, or at least our perceptions, are in our head? Having a true, lasting relationship requires a level of agreement, and a shared reality.
Is there balance between the dream world where we create based on our wants and needs, and the real day to day reality? In a real relationship we are interacting with another person, with their own thoughts and dreams. For their own sake they must be true to their own perceptions, not live up to yours.
In any relationship there is a balance between the shared reality and our perception of the relationship. When we connect and truly love another it is because we have allowed ourselves to fit in that space. There is an open-ness within our heart, and our lives, to share with another.
The connection we have with another can be a life-long bond that is unbreakable, but it can also be delicate and breakable, with only a misspoken word or the wrong action. Coming to an understanding of your past-based desires can bring you to greater clarity in your present relationship and the person who stands before you. - 15784
The statistics are out there, with so many more relationships ending in divorce than we care to think about. How do we know if the person we are with is the right one? Is that uneasy feeling caused by a deep down knowing, or a fear of self?
We want to make sure that we are with someone who is good for us, and beat those almost undeniable statistics. It is not all that uncommon to question whether or not we are with the right person. What is your gut level feeling?
How do we know how much of our relationship, or at least our perceptions, are in our head? Having a true, lasting relationship requires a level of agreement, and a shared reality.
Is there balance between the dream world where we create based on our wants and needs, and the real day to day reality? In a real relationship we are interacting with another person, with their own thoughts and dreams. For their own sake they must be true to their own perceptions, not live up to yours.
In any relationship there is a balance between the shared reality and our perception of the relationship. When we connect and truly love another it is because we have allowed ourselves to fit in that space. There is an open-ness within our heart, and our lives, to share with another.
The connection we have with another can be a life-long bond that is unbreakable, but it can also be delicate and breakable, with only a misspoken word or the wrong action. Coming to an understanding of your past-based desires can bring you to greater clarity in your present relationship and the person who stands before you. - 15784
About the Author:
Author Estee Taschereau is a Intuitive Life Coach and Reiki Healing Master. Learn amazing energy tools through Reiki Healing.