Monday, December 1, 2008

Is Your Spouse Cheating? Here's How To Find Out For Sure

By Doug Timlin

If you are married or in a relationship, you may have wondered at times whether your spouse or partner is cheating on you. It's a common worry that people have and you owe it to yourself to find out the truth. Thankfully there's an easy way to find out.

The following technique will get you the answers you need about your relationship quickly and without your spouse ever knowing you are "investigating" them. Here's what you need to do:

The First Step

Ok - let's get to it. Your first "mission" is to find about 15 minutes where you can be alone with your spouse's cell phone. You need to pick a time that you can look at it without worrying about anyone walking in on you.

Once you have gotten a hold of their cell phone, you need to look through the call history that is stored on their phone. Look through the phone and find both the 'incoming' and 'outgoing' call history lists

As you look through the list of phone numbers, write down each one you see on a piece of paper. Any phone number that you recognize you don't have to write down but make sure that every other phone number is being jotted down.

Step Number Two

In this next step you are going to put a name to every phone number on your list - this is the most important step in getting the answers you are looking for.

There is a way that you can find out someone's full details (name, address, background information) by only having their phone number. It's called using a "reverse phone lookup" - this gives you instant information on the phone number.

The companies that provide this service pay for access to all phone records so that they can build huge databases that have information on all phone numbers. All you do is punch in the phone number (it's done online) and then the person's details are shown right on your computer's screen.

As I'm sure you guessed, there is a charge for running a search, but it's only a few bucks. What you will want to look for is a company that only charges a one-time fee for unlimited reverse phone searches so that you don't have to pay for each individual search you make.

Right at the bottom of this article there's a link we included so you can use a free sample search to get an idea of how this works.

Now it's time to go through the list of phone numbers you wrote down and run a reverse phone search for each one. Write down the details you find for each one next to the phone number.

The Third Step

Now that you have completed the first two steps you have an entire list of exactly who your spouse has been talking to on the phone. This is a powerful piece of information - once you know who your partner has been communicating with it becomes easy to see if there is something 'fishy' happening.

Go over your list and look at what you see. If there is anything suspicious it is sure to jump off the page at you. You have the name and details about every person your spouse has been talking to on their phone so it's easy to spot anything unusual.

If you are at all suspicious that your spouse is cheating on you, use the above trick to find out if your suspicions are warranted. You deserve to know the truth about whether you are being treated with the respect you deserve. - 15784

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