It doesn't seem like it takes too much these days for a man to drop a woman suddenly and then start on what he feels is a better life without her. Sometimes, he does this just because she has given him the chance to do so. Other times it happens because love is blind and in the beginning she just was unable to see the real him through her everything-is-perfect colored glasses.
In this article, we will talk about the top 3 bad reasons men decide to call it quits with a woman. These three reasons are common reasons but they say more about the man than the woman or the relationship. Still, they also say something about the vetting process used to pick men these days.
The guys who do these sorts of things are, generally speaking, real jerks and you should really look out for these types. They're actually out there. So, beware and don't give them the opportunity to dump you for their self-serving reasons!
She's Not the Choice of The People He Hangs With
Many times a man becomes taken by a woman who seems to be attractive to others he associates himself with. While reasoning like this is probably reserved for guys with inferiority complexes, many men are more concerned by having some one who is approved by their peers than they are finding somebody they truly love.
If at some point, it crosses this guy's warped mind, she is not up to his friends' and associates' standards, he might just have no more use for her. In this case, he'll find some excuse to call it quits.
She's Lost the "Wow! Look at Her!"
Unfortunately, it never comes to many people's minds that they will ever age. At first the two lovers could never look at anyone else because they are so taken with the physical attributes of each other. They are, in each others minds.... Perfect!
This is all great, but at some point, maybe like five kids down the road, she loses her 21-year-old-girl figure. Unfortunately, it's not until this point that either one of them realizes all along the relationship had been all about sex.
Having a Family is Too Tough!
The thing that's changed drastically over the years is that now a lot of folks seem to be in a hurry to settle down without really settling down. What I mean by this is, they start living together without ever starting a married type of relationship.
In the not too distant future, he figures out the family life is just too tough for him, and without having a commitment, he just walks out the door. Unfortunately, this happens all the time. Living together without marriage has become the thing to do to, and broken hearts are often the result.
Don't let this kind of thing happen. Live together for fun if you must, but a family? Don't you think the kids deserve better than that? - 15784
In this article, we will talk about the top 3 bad reasons men decide to call it quits with a woman. These three reasons are common reasons but they say more about the man than the woman or the relationship. Still, they also say something about the vetting process used to pick men these days.
The guys who do these sorts of things are, generally speaking, real jerks and you should really look out for these types. They're actually out there. So, beware and don't give them the opportunity to dump you for their self-serving reasons!
She's Not the Choice of The People He Hangs With
Many times a man becomes taken by a woman who seems to be attractive to others he associates himself with. While reasoning like this is probably reserved for guys with inferiority complexes, many men are more concerned by having some one who is approved by their peers than they are finding somebody they truly love.
If at some point, it crosses this guy's warped mind, she is not up to his friends' and associates' standards, he might just have no more use for her. In this case, he'll find some excuse to call it quits.
She's Lost the "Wow! Look at Her!"
Unfortunately, it never comes to many people's minds that they will ever age. At first the two lovers could never look at anyone else because they are so taken with the physical attributes of each other. They are, in each others minds.... Perfect!
This is all great, but at some point, maybe like five kids down the road, she loses her 21-year-old-girl figure. Unfortunately, it's not until this point that either one of them realizes all along the relationship had been all about sex.
Having a Family is Too Tough!
The thing that's changed drastically over the years is that now a lot of folks seem to be in a hurry to settle down without really settling down. What I mean by this is, they start living together without ever starting a married type of relationship.
In the not too distant future, he figures out the family life is just too tough for him, and without having a commitment, he just walks out the door. Unfortunately, this happens all the time. Living together without marriage has become the thing to do to, and broken hearts are often the result.
Don't let this kind of thing happen. Live together for fun if you must, but a family? Don't you think the kids deserve better than that? - 15784
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