There are two ways of learning how to be a player: get pre-selected and prevent her from turning you into "just a friend". There is a big difference between being just a friend and being her boyfriend, and we are going to delineate that right now. The first thing is easier to do than the second, so we are going to tackle the more difficult method first.
How to be a player by being her boyfriend, and not just her friend?
Sure, many sources will tell you that knowing how to be a player could mean flirting with just about anyone and sleeping with everyone, even your female pals. Sleeping with a friend, however, is like scratching a temporary itch, while sleeping with a boyfriend means to fall deeply in love with him by making love.
If you don't care at all about what women think, and feel relieved that having girl pals to have sex with when you feel the itch can be all right, but what if your female pal suddenly becomes seriously involved with another guy? What will happen to you then?
Do you see the problem?
One can never be too certain that a girl pal will want you for a steady boyfriend; the worst part is that if you are really close with each other, she will see right through you and know that you are learning how to be a player and she might lose respect for you all together.
Besides, if you are going to turn into a player after you have gone through all the tips on how to be a player, would you really want to risk your friendship with your best gal pals? The risk there is that, if they DO fall in love with you and yet you cannot commit, you will be losing not only a girlfriend but also a friend. Yes, you don't want that to happen, so beware.
The road to being a boyfriend is straightforward, and if you turn into one through your friendship, there's a big chance that you can never go back to being "just friends". And for all you know, you may never be able to get out of the friend zone and be stuck here forever (this is the case with "guy best friends" all of the time).
Your best bet at making it as a player is to always be straightforward with your female friends. It's okay to tell them that you are open to a relationship in the future, but perhaps not the near future. If this doesn't fit with her plans, she might still be your friend and even help you with the next step of learning how to be a player social proofing.
One way is to have your gal pal introduce you to other women as her "ex" so that the women you meet can be alerted to your value as boyfriend material. The fact that you have become the boyfriend of an attractive woman and that you have separated peacefully means you are one heck of a cool guy. This is a social proofing technique that is almost fool proof as I'm sure you can see why. Your value increases immediately, and so girls would want to date you. - 15784
How to be a player by being her boyfriend, and not just her friend?
Sure, many sources will tell you that knowing how to be a player could mean flirting with just about anyone and sleeping with everyone, even your female pals. Sleeping with a friend, however, is like scratching a temporary itch, while sleeping with a boyfriend means to fall deeply in love with him by making love.
If you don't care at all about what women think, and feel relieved that having girl pals to have sex with when you feel the itch can be all right, but what if your female pal suddenly becomes seriously involved with another guy? What will happen to you then?
Do you see the problem?
One can never be too certain that a girl pal will want you for a steady boyfriend; the worst part is that if you are really close with each other, she will see right through you and know that you are learning how to be a player and she might lose respect for you all together.
Besides, if you are going to turn into a player after you have gone through all the tips on how to be a player, would you really want to risk your friendship with your best gal pals? The risk there is that, if they DO fall in love with you and yet you cannot commit, you will be losing not only a girlfriend but also a friend. Yes, you don't want that to happen, so beware.
The road to being a boyfriend is straightforward, and if you turn into one through your friendship, there's a big chance that you can never go back to being "just friends". And for all you know, you may never be able to get out of the friend zone and be stuck here forever (this is the case with "guy best friends" all of the time).
Your best bet at making it as a player is to always be straightforward with your female friends. It's okay to tell them that you are open to a relationship in the future, but perhaps not the near future. If this doesn't fit with her plans, she might still be your friend and even help you with the next step of learning how to be a player social proofing.
One way is to have your gal pal introduce you to other women as her "ex" so that the women you meet can be alerted to your value as boyfriend material. The fact that you have become the boyfriend of an attractive woman and that you have separated peacefully means you are one heck of a cool guy. This is a social proofing technique that is almost fool proof as I'm sure you can see why. Your value increases immediately, and so girls would want to date you. - 15784
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