Saturday, February 21, 2009

How to get women to think of you as a catch

By Chaszey Sandhriel

Guys, follow these simple steps if you want women to wonder if you could possibly be "The One." While you may have heard that "wealth attracts women like flies to honey," the statement is also insulting to some women because it insinuates that only wealthy men can get girls. While rich guys may have an easier time providing materialistic means to their dates, what women are truly after is emotional security, something that can't be bought with money. Not every woman wants a guy who is as wealthy as Donald Trump. Try following these simple steps to getting women to be attracted to you:

1. Choose your clothes well - Women love to talk about guys who dress well. Your clothes need not be branded, but you must dress mindfully so that the colors don't clash. Good taste creates the illusion of wealth. Choose classy fabrics and always press your clothes before going out.

2. Take your time when speaking - Most men dislike women who talk a lot; well, the same goes for women. Stay away from babbling non-sense when you take your woman out on a date. Women dislike men who babble nonsense during dates. When you talk too much you either communicate a sense of desperation or insecurity or lack of interest in finding out about her. When she asks you questions, don't just fly off the handle but think before you answer. Let her see that you're thinking about your answer so that she'll realize that you're not the ordinary guy and that she can't pull a fast one on you.

3. Be proud of what you do - There's nothing more boring to a woman than a man who says: "It's just a job." Women want emotional security more than they want financial security and if you exude pride and excitement about what you do for a living she'll sense your passion for life and your purpose and it will make her feel secure. All those qualities add to your self confidence, a great and rare quality in any man.

4. Don't insult her intelligence - Even if you're one of the wealthiest men in the world, you should adopt a certain way of thinking that does not put her down. She will only show compliance to a guy who respects her will and intellect. Discuss issues with her, and always ask her about her stand in a particular debate. Women will always have something to say about anything under the sun. Also, don't make her feel stupid by not revealing your intentions soon enough. The real reason why women feel mad at guys who cheat is the insult of not being taken seriously.

5. Be proud, be different - Be unique! Women love a man who has the self confidence to stand up for himself. Learn how to get women to notice you by taking care of yourself first. Perhaps you look better with a shaved head or a pony tail than with a short haircut. Regardless of what's "in," honor your Self and project yourself with pride. Women love guys that are "different" and unique and carry themselves with certainty.

Most men have a tendency to overanalyze dating strategies and spend countless hours figuring out how to get women to date them without realizing the obvious. Be yourself and be honest. If you're not too serious about a woman, tell her that you're unable to commit. She'll appreciate your honesty. Men who realize that respect is the ultimate compliment will never have to figure out how to get women to commit. - 15784

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