Monday, October 27, 2008

How To Quickly Discover If Your Spouse Is Cheating On You

By Doug Timlin

If you have ever wondered if your spouse is cheating on you, here's an easy way to find out. You deserve to know the truth about your relationship and whether or not your partner is treating you with the respect you deserve.

There's an easy way to get the answers you need and find out if your spouse is being faithful. This technique has three steps - let's take a look at each one.

Step #1

Ready to play detective? You need to be a little bit "crafty" in this first step.

You are going to have to "borrow" your partner's cell phone for about 15 minutes. You need to make sure you do this at a good time where you don't have to worry about them walking in and catching you looking at their phone.

Timing is crucial here since you don't want your spouse to know what you are doing. Wait for a good time - maybe they just jumped in the shower or have gone out to the gym or store but left their phone at home.

When you get a hold of their phone, grab a pen and paper and write down every phone number that shows up in their call history. You will need to look at both the "incoming" and "outgoing" call lists.

While you are writing down the phone numbers you see you can leave off any that you recognize and know for sure where they come from. Just make sure you jot down every number that doesn't look familiar to you.

After you have finished doing this, discretely put the cell phone back in the same place you found it and move on to the second step.

Step Number Two

In this step you are going to find out exactly who your partner has been talking to on the phone.

It is possible to find out complete on someone by having only their phone number. This is all you need to get their full name, address and background information.

There are specialized companies that pay money to have access to all phone records (including unlisted and cell phone numbers) and build databases of these records. They then allow law enforcement, detective agencies and the general public to search through them.

These companies will charge a small fee to run a search, but it isn't expensive. There's a link at the bottom of this article where you can run a free sample search to see how it works. This type of search is known as a "reverse phone lookup".

When using a reverse phone lookup, you just enter the phone number and then the results are instantly shown on your computer. You will see the phone owner's name, address and other background details that can be useful.

You want to find a company that charges a flat rate for unlimited searches in their database. There are usually going to be quite a few numbers on the list you just made so this way you won't pay for each search you run.

Look over your list and run a reverse phone lookup for every phone number you have written down. Write down the information you find out for each one.

After you have finished running searches for each phone number you can go to the last step.

Step #3

Now that you have your list complete, it's time to look over your results.

The list you just made shows you exactly who your partner has been talking to on the phone. This makes it easy to spot if anything unusual is going on.

A lot of times people will think that their partner is cheating on them with someone in particular. If you have someone in mind, is that name on the list?

What about the other names that show up? Anything look out of the ordinary?

At this point, it will be clear if your suspicions about your spouse being unfaithful are correct.

If you think there is a chance that your spouse is cheating on you, make sure you do what it takes to find out. This method is an easy way to get some quick answers about whether or not you are being treated with the respect that you deserve. - 15784

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