For generations, parents have been telling their children to be careful of strangers and it is a valuable piece of advice. But, it only paints part of the picture. The terrible truth that you see on the larger canvas is that you are more likely to be victimized by someone you know than an absolute stranger. In fact, statistics indicate that 8 out of 10 victims know their attacker.
Thousands of young women head off to college campuses every year, completely unprepared for the most common source of danger - acquaintances and dates. Being assaulted by someone you know and think you can trust carries a whole new set of baggage. Feelings of betrayal, a sense of responsibility, and perception of guilt. You may receive less support from friends and peers, as their loyalties are torn between the two sides.
Date and party rape are infrequently reported. Actually, that's a big understatement- about 90% of the time nothing is said about date rape. It's just brushed off as drunken antics at a party or a misunderstanding. This situation occurs thousands of times every year, on every campus across the country.
Heading off to school is supposed to be an exciting and challenging time, but it's also very difficult. Many kids have a hard time adjusting to life away from home. Some withdraw to their rooms and their books and others go a little haywire. It doesn't make them bad- just vulnerable.
These are the six things you need to make sure that your kids understand
The only sure way to prevent a miscarriage of justice is to prevent the crime. When alcohol and young people mix, situations can easily get out of hand. Your judgement goes downhill and so does your perception and then before you see anything coming- you have a mess on your hands.
If a date is making you feel uncomfortable, let them know immediately. Do not let the situation escalate. When your safety is on the line, there is no need to worry about being embarrassed or sparing another persons feelings. Make your feelings clear, and then immediately leave.
It is very easy to be charmed by a perfect guy, especially if you haven't done a lot of dating. But if you start to feel swamped and overwhelmed watch out for the danger signs of a potentially abusive relationship.
It's bound to happen that you'll be out with a one of the girls and she'll have too much to drink. You may not bail out on her when she is vulnerable. Be a true friend. No matter how hard it is for you, leave with her and take her to a safe place.
Never go to parties or drinking alone. Always go with a friend you can trust not to leave you alone if you get too intoxicated.
A college campus isn't filled only with people like the friends you grew up with. Seemingly "good people" can do terrible things. Remember that trust is something to be earned, not given away. Don't be a victim. - 15784
Thousands of young women head off to college campuses every year, completely unprepared for the most common source of danger - acquaintances and dates. Being assaulted by someone you know and think you can trust carries a whole new set of baggage. Feelings of betrayal, a sense of responsibility, and perception of guilt. You may receive less support from friends and peers, as their loyalties are torn between the two sides.
Date and party rape are infrequently reported. Actually, that's a big understatement- about 90% of the time nothing is said about date rape. It's just brushed off as drunken antics at a party or a misunderstanding. This situation occurs thousands of times every year, on every campus across the country.
Heading off to school is supposed to be an exciting and challenging time, but it's also very difficult. Many kids have a hard time adjusting to life away from home. Some withdraw to their rooms and their books and others go a little haywire. It doesn't make them bad- just vulnerable.
These are the six things you need to make sure that your kids understand
The only sure way to prevent a miscarriage of justice is to prevent the crime. When alcohol and young people mix, situations can easily get out of hand. Your judgement goes downhill and so does your perception and then before you see anything coming- you have a mess on your hands.
If a date is making you feel uncomfortable, let them know immediately. Do not let the situation escalate. When your safety is on the line, there is no need to worry about being embarrassed or sparing another persons feelings. Make your feelings clear, and then immediately leave.
It is very easy to be charmed by a perfect guy, especially if you haven't done a lot of dating. But if you start to feel swamped and overwhelmed watch out for the danger signs of a potentially abusive relationship.
It's bound to happen that you'll be out with a one of the girls and she'll have too much to drink. You may not bail out on her when she is vulnerable. Be a true friend. No matter how hard it is for you, leave with her and take her to a safe place.
Never go to parties or drinking alone. Always go with a friend you can trust not to leave you alone if you get too intoxicated.
A college campus isn't filled only with people like the friends you grew up with. Seemingly "good people" can do terrible things. Remember that trust is something to be earned, not given away. Don't be a victim. - 15784
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