Tuesday, December 23, 2008

Types Of Relationships

By Mary Bush

The most important relationships are and will always be the relations inside the family and relationships between lovers. The family is, from the beginning of mankind, one of the most important points in a person's life. The family is the one you belong to, the family is the first you are missing when you are far away and the one you feel that you can lean on when you feel lonely, and the family should surely be the place where you feel home, no matter where you are. Unfortunately it often happens that families fall apart, parents are breaking up and the children are being raised only with one family part.

I think that anyone who ever felt the warmth and happiness of a loving family is praising this and should do everything that is required to keep the family relationship working well, because without the loved ones we would feel lonely in this world.

The relationship between lovers is without any doubt the most complicated and interesting of all relationships between two people. Probably the most beautiful is the one where you are getting back all the love and trust you are giving to your partner. When you feel that your lover means the whole world for you and that your life would be senseless without that person. Then you know you found your perfect match. But there can't be only great moments in a relationship, lovers can lose the trust they once had, or the affection they felt and suddenly even the most perfect looking relationship can turn in time into a real nightmare. You're starting to see only bad things and habits of the loved person and you forget to praise all the good sides you once adored so much, the love you felt turns into routine and the risk of finding someone else or being cheated rises fast.

For a good working relationship between lovers, both sides should be open to talk about anything and trust each other. Even in the most serious relationship, we all need free space to feel independent. That's why we have to try to not cover the partner with too much love or control her/him. If the love is true and deep nothing will ever tear lovers apart.

Relationships between parents and children are often difficult, mostly when the children are growing up. Getting older means for most of us knowing more, understanding what in the past were just mysteries and starting to explore new things on our own. One of the worst problems between parents and their kids is the lack of communication. Parents are not trying to understand us better, they are busy with their jobs and other "adult" problems. Not cleaning up our room, not learning enough or just not being home on time are small things that are causing conflicts.

Even if sometimes or most of the times it is quite hard to understand why parents are getting mad so easily or why some things are forbidden, children should try to accept parents' decision because in the end we all know that parents are just wanting the best for us. In the meantime parents should try to be a little more tolerant and to understand that nowadays the youth can't be like the youth was at their time and that we are having more opportunities than they had. We also have to remember that we're facing a way more complicated society with more problems and more and better ways to have fun and so, to get in danger.

We can't say much about the relationships between neighbors. They can be good or bad. Sure it would be perfectly if it could be like in those movies where neighbors are coming to borrow coffee or sugar from you but the reality is often not that bright. Try to get along with your neighbors, and maybe they are showing their nice side too!

Here are some of the stereotypes of relationships that exist between people in every day's life. Even sometimes we face up problems, we need these people in our lives we need affection, we need love and support. Learn to appreciate the people around you! - 15784