Wednesday, January 28, 2009

Could Your Spouse be Cheating?

By Tammy Porter

Cheating or two-timing has been a widespread phenomenon. It has affected urban lives drastically in these recent times. Many relationships have hit a rough patch because of such infidelity. If you seem to be having misgivings about the faithfulness of your partner, it is time that you find out for sure.

It takes less than two hours to find it out by using the 3 steps mentioned below.

Step One-

This is the first and toughest step. You have to find some time with your partner's cell phone for at least ten minutes when they are not around. You can't afford to get caught. Look at it for about ten minutes, so finding an appropriate time is not so hard.

If you are wondering when to do this spying work then here are a few suggestions. Grab the cell phone when your partner is taking a shower, or may be has gone to the grocery shop.

Second step to catch a cheater:

Now that you have got the phone without wasting any time go to the call log. Check out all the incoming and outgoing calls.

Quickly take a pen and paper and jot down every number you get on these lists. This step should not take more that 10 minutes. Now that you have jotted down all the numbers the phone is no longer important for you. So put it down where you picked it up from!

Third step:

This is the last hurdle to finding out whether your partner has been cheating on you or not.

Now, you shall have to gather the details about each phone number that you have jotted down from his/her call lists. This will enable you to trace all those people who have either contacted or been contacted by your partner.

You must be wondering about how to find out who the owner is of each of these numbers. Well here is the answer. You will have to take the help of the "reverse phone lookup".

This service helps you to gather the required particulars of a person from his/her phone number. This includes the person's full name, address and if possible certain other crucial details of his/her life.

You have to use the services of a reverse phone lookup service to do this. They will charge you, but it won't be costly. The best bet is to settle for a company that has a one time membership fee and allows unlimited lookups. You have to pay just once and you can ruin lookups on every number you had written down earlier.

It's now time to run a reverse lookup on every phone number you had noted. Watch out for any suspicious names or calls. Chances are, anything out of the way will stand out prominently.

The steps given above provide you with the easiest and the fastest way to catch an unfaithful partner. It provides you with enough proof to confront your spouse or partner about his/her infidelity! - 15784

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