Thursday, January 29, 2009

What I Did to Get My Ex Girlfriend Back

By Davion W

There is probably no worse feeling than that of being dumped, and when that happened to me, too, I had no other thoughts but to get my ex girlfriend back. We didn't exactly say good-bye to the relationship, after all, not mutually at least, so I devised a plan which proved effective to get my ex girlfriend back.

The first strategy that I used is termed "I agree". Getting my ex girlfriend back became easier after this. Especially after treating her like a fool and being the immature guy she didn't want anymore. I called her once and for all and told her that I wish her well. I said I agree with the break up and that it might have been good for both of us to part ways. After saying these things, I hanged up. No point in relishing the past.

This technique got her thinking twice about what she's lost; reverse psychology as they call it that became the first effective step in getting my ex GF back. I tried my best to sound cool and civil while talking to her then.

After this reverse psychology, the next step I did to get my ex GF back was to give her the silent treatment. I practically shut myself out of her life, not calling her again, not pestering her with emails or text messages. There was no communication whatsoever, a news blackout as they called it. By this time she thought I was completely out of her life and she spent so many nights thinking if she made a mistake in letting me go.

I was not exactly thrilled to be lying to her as I had while doing the first two strategies. Nonetheless, after I have had her back in my arms, I vowed that I would not lie again. Getting back with an ex was a life-changing decision for me, something that I could not just make fun of or toy around with.

The final strategy I used was to play hard to get. It was painful to take things so slow, but it was worth it in the end. I didn't want to rush, I wanted to take things slowly and do them right this time.

After all the patience, I got her back and we became a better pair. I made it a point then to prioritize the relationship. I realized that when I got my ex GF back, I had one of the best moments of my life.

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