Sunday, February 22, 2009

Five Keys to Her Mind

By Stylelife Coaches

These secrets are the things that women wish men understood but will rarely tell you. But a word of caution: Understanding these five things will give you an edge over almost every other man she knows.

1. She Wants to be Emotionally Swept Away, Not Just Impressed

Ever been on a date where you said the most interesting things about your life only to figure out she only wants to be your friend? Men think girls have a laundry list of things that we have to achieve. In reality, women want you to stimulate them emotionally. Men understand words with facts while women understand with emotion. When you talk to her, make her journey through the story with you.

2. She Relies on You to Make Her Feel Comfortable

A woman will stay clear from any awkward situation. The comfort you have yourself has absolute effect on her own. You must have comfort with her if you wish to win her over mentally, emotionally, and physically. Keep the conversation light at first and avoid topics of huge plans for the future as they may make her uncomfortable.

3. Dont Argue, Its Pointless. Often She Doesnt Even Know Why Shes Feeling Emotional

When a girl gets upset, the things she says may not be what's bothering her. The main thing a woman wants from a man is reassurance. She needs to know you're there for her. Once she calms down, listen carefully and you'll be able to figure out what the root of her problem is.

4. She Is Just As (If Not More) Sexual Than You Are. Its Just Compartmentalized

Yes guys, the good news: Women love sex. But there is one key difference between women and men when it comes to that and its not what you think. Women are a bit more sexually and emotionally complex than we are and as such, their sexuality is experienced differently. It doesnt take as much to stimulate men. Women, on the other hand, compartmentalize their sexual thinking. She keeps it in one particular place in her mind which is locked away until the right time or the right key comes along. If you bear the key that unlocks that place, the floodgates open and youre the one with whom she shares her most intimate thoughts, feelings, and desires.

5. She Expects You to Respect Her and You Better Respect Yourself First

When a woman gives her body and mind to you, you must respect her. Without it, the relationship will not work. Respect her as well as yourself. You shouldn't make her do something she does not want to do. A real man does what he says. There is no room for empty promises. She wants to depend on you. Mutual respect is key in any successful relationship. - 15784

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