If you can create for yourself an aura of desirability, rest assured you are a step closer to gaining a woman's interest, and more importantly, keeping it. Women will gravitate towards men who display confidence and self esteem; it's in their nature to do so. A man who shows that he carries these traits sends out a subtle message that he is strong, and exciting.
Portraying ourselves in the right way is one of the most important things we'll ever do, so it's very important to get it right. Here are a few key tips:
1. Be vague, don't show too much interest - unless you absolutely have to.
2. Show confidence in yourself as a man, your virility is important and don't you forget it.
3. Tease and torment her. Don't be too eager; give her a chance to come to you, too.
If you can maintain a show of mystery, you'll seem more exciting. Any woman who actually wants to be seduced will appreciate some fun and if you reveal all about yourself then you leave her nothing to discover, and when I say discover I don't mean the 20 children you had in 10 years to 15 different women! I mean facets of your personality that she would really like to see with a touch of old fashioned romance. Small gestures that reveal just a tiny part of you; whether it's a little bit of 'chivalry' every now and again - a gentle kiss on her hand when she's expecting more, or sending her flowers with a sexy message inside when you know she is dining with girlfriends. You want to appear as the man a lot of women would want.
Impressing her friends by romancing her will give you a leg up in your efforts to keep her. They might set their sights on you, and she'll sense this and try to tighten her grip on you. When doing this, remain subtle. Don't make a show of impressing other people all the time when you are around her, otherwise you'll come across as a borderline creep. And that's a line you don't want to cross.
Don't chase her constantly. Remember to back away time and again and don't give an explanation unless you think it is troubling her, and if it is give her a good reason, not an excuse, a reason. The idea is to make her wonder where you are, and what you're doing - within reason. The aim is to seduce, not torment.
Use lingering looks when you do see her, just every now and again. You want to convey your message subtly, not shout from the tree-tops. Women are intuitive by nature and can sense when someone isn't genuine, or if they're going overboard purposefully. If you feel you are losing her, then you need to act fast. Anything which can be perceived as a sacrifice for her without you making a meal of it will help. You can create your own scenario if needs be, but remember, you aren't there to hurt her - you want both of you to enjoy yourselves and if you plan 'too' much then there's a strong chance something will go wrong.
If you treat her properly, she'll do the same for you. Remember that women aren't there to be used and abused; like you they want to be cared for, and respected. When she is ready, she'll let you know. There is no sense in pushing her into anything, so remember that when you get frustrated. When you do decide to make your move, do so gently. You will know the time is right if you've done your homework by getting to know her. - 15784
Portraying ourselves in the right way is one of the most important things we'll ever do, so it's very important to get it right. Here are a few key tips:
1. Be vague, don't show too much interest - unless you absolutely have to.
2. Show confidence in yourself as a man, your virility is important and don't you forget it.
3. Tease and torment her. Don't be too eager; give her a chance to come to you, too.
If you can maintain a show of mystery, you'll seem more exciting. Any woman who actually wants to be seduced will appreciate some fun and if you reveal all about yourself then you leave her nothing to discover, and when I say discover I don't mean the 20 children you had in 10 years to 15 different women! I mean facets of your personality that she would really like to see with a touch of old fashioned romance. Small gestures that reveal just a tiny part of you; whether it's a little bit of 'chivalry' every now and again - a gentle kiss on her hand when she's expecting more, or sending her flowers with a sexy message inside when you know she is dining with girlfriends. You want to appear as the man a lot of women would want.
Impressing her friends by romancing her will give you a leg up in your efforts to keep her. They might set their sights on you, and she'll sense this and try to tighten her grip on you. When doing this, remain subtle. Don't make a show of impressing other people all the time when you are around her, otherwise you'll come across as a borderline creep. And that's a line you don't want to cross.
Don't chase her constantly. Remember to back away time and again and don't give an explanation unless you think it is troubling her, and if it is give her a good reason, not an excuse, a reason. The idea is to make her wonder where you are, and what you're doing - within reason. The aim is to seduce, not torment.
Use lingering looks when you do see her, just every now and again. You want to convey your message subtly, not shout from the tree-tops. Women are intuitive by nature and can sense when someone isn't genuine, or if they're going overboard purposefully. If you feel you are losing her, then you need to act fast. Anything which can be perceived as a sacrifice for her without you making a meal of it will help. You can create your own scenario if needs be, but remember, you aren't there to hurt her - you want both of you to enjoy yourselves and if you plan 'too' much then there's a strong chance something will go wrong.
If you treat her properly, she'll do the same for you. Remember that women aren't there to be used and abused; like you they want to be cared for, and respected. When she is ready, she'll let you know. There is no sense in pushing her into anything, so remember that when you get frustrated. When you do decide to make your move, do so gently. You will know the time is right if you've done your homework by getting to know her. - 15784
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