Friday, November 7, 2008

The Easy Way To Discover If Your Spouse Is Cheating On You

By Sam Thompson

If you have ever had your suspicions that your spouse was cheating on you, then you know how horrible of a worry it can be. Wondering if your partner is being unfaithful is enough to drive anyone crazy.

Today we wanted to show you an easy way that you can find out if your partner is being unfaithful to you. If you have ever thought that something might be going on behind your back, you deserve to find out the truth about your relationship.

This method involves two steps - let's go over them so you can get to it.

Step Number One

The reason that this trick works so well is that it lets you find out exactly who your partner has been communicating with. The first step you have to take will force you to be just a little bit on the crafty side.

Your first task is to find about 10-15 minutes when you can be looking at your spouse's cell phone and not worry about them "catching" you. For obvious reasons, you will want to pick a good time to do this.

When you do manage to get a hold of their cell phone, you will want to write out every phone number that you see listed in their call history lists. Cell phones will usually have a list for both incoming and outgoing calls so make sure to look for both of these.

Jot down every phone number that you see listed on their phone on a piece of paper and then put the phone back where you found it when you are done.

Step #2

Now you have a list of phone numbers that your spouse has been talking to - it's time to find out exactly who owns each of these numbers.

You might be surprised at how much information you can find out about somebody with nothing but a phone number. You can find out someone's full name, address, location details and background information with just their number.

This is made possible because there are companies that build up huge databases that have information on all the phone numbers out there. They will buy access to phone records and then put together directories that people can search through to find out information on any phone number.

This is a search that can be entirely done online. It's called a reverse phone lookup - all you do is punch in the phone number and then the full details on who owns the phone is instantly displayed.

At the bottom of this article there's a link you can use to try out a free sample search.

To use this service you will have to pay a small fee. It's inexpensive though and you can find companies that only charge a one-time flat fee that gives you access to unlimited searches. You will only be billed once and can then run a search on as many phone numbers as you want.

With your list of phone numbers that you created in step #1, go run a reverse phone search on each one of these numbers. Jot down the information you discover about each number as you go down your list.

After you have done a search for every phone number, you will have full details on everyone that your spouse has been communicating with on their cell phone. This is powerful information to have and makes it easy to notice if there is anything going on that you need to be concerned about.

One of the reasons I like this method so much is that your partner never knows what you are doing. Not only is it quick and easy, but it's also completely confidential.

If you have ever wondered if your partner was cheating on you, the above technique gives you an easy way to uncover the truth. You obviously deserve to know the truth about your relationship and this gives you an easy way to find out. - 15784

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