Thursday, November 20, 2008

The Easy Way To Find Out If Your Spouse Is Cheating

By Doug Timlin

Whether you are married or in a committed relationship, you may have wondered before if your partner was cheating on you. It's an awful suspicion to deal with, so we wanted to show you an easy way to discover whether or not your partner is being unfaithful.

The nice thing about this method is that you can do it all from your own home without anyone knowing what you are doing. I get emails from people asking about hiring a private investigator to look into whether their spouse is cheating, however that is such a drastic step that isn't necessary. This quick and easy "detective's trick" is the first thing you should do if you have some thoughts that your partner might be acting unfaithfully.

Ok - let's get to it.

Step Number One - Is Your Spouse Cheating

The first thing you will need to do is find a time where you can look at your spouse's cell phone for about 15-20 minutes. This isn't hard to do - you just have to pick a time where you are confident you won't get "caught" while you are looking at the phone.

When you have the phone you will need to grab a pen and paper as well. At this point you are going to look through the call history that is stored on their cell phone. Go through both the incoming and outgoing call history lists and write down every phone number that you see.

If you see numbers that you recognize than you don't have to write them down, but do make sure to jot down any phone number that doesn't ring a bell.

When you are all done, you can put the phone back and head on to step #2.

The Second Step - Could Your Spouse Be Cheating?

Now you have a list of phone numbers that your spouse has either called or been called by. At this point it's time to figure out exactly who is behind each one of these phone numbers.

With just someone's phone number, you can find out their full name, address, background information and all sorts of other information. It's pretty incredible how much you can uncover about someone with just their phone number.

The reason that this is possible is that there are companies that put together huge databases with information on all phone numbers. These businesses purchase phone records and then build these databases that you can search through to find out information on any phone number you need to look into.

We included a link right at the bottom of this article where you can try a free sample search to see how this works.

Of course there's a fee for using this type of service, but it isn't something that costs much. You can find companies that will only charge a flat one-time fee for unlimited searches which is your best bet in this case. That way you don't get billed for every phone number you run a search on.

This type of search is call a "reverse phone lookup".

Go through your list of phone numbers and run a search for each one. Write down the information you find out about each one on your sheet of paper.

Step Number Three - Is Your Spouse Cheating?

Now not only do you have a list of the phone numbers your spouse has called or been called by, but you have full details on who owns each and every one of these phone numbers!

By figuring out who your spouse has been in communications with, it's easy to spot if there is anything "fishy" going on. You have this exact information in front of you - it's now time to look at what you see on your list.

Now it's time to pay close attention to what you see on the list you just made. You have uncovered exactly who your spouse has been talking to - anything that looks suspicious is going to be glaringly obvious and will jump off the page at you.

The great thing about this method is that you an do everything from home and no one will ever know you are running an "investigation". If there is any reason that you suspect that your spouse is acting unfaithfully, then you need to do what it takes to find out for sure. This technique lets you get the answers that you need quickly and easily. Good luck! - 15784

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