Thursday, November 20, 2008

How to deal With Rejection

By Ada Denis

Rejection is the greatest opposition of Love.To reject a someone is accessible but to love a makes up, it takes tremendous willingness, humility and egoless attitude. No being merits rejection on this earth. If one guesses he needs to be deserted for his sins, every human being merits to be alone. To err is human. To accursed it on someone else is not. When you point out one finger towards others, call up there are four fingers pointing towards you and your mistakes. If every being tending his or her own business, this earth would turn into Paradise.

It is not hopeless but very much practicable to forgive and love the person who you think merits to be declined. Firstly, think for yourself how many fumbles and misunderstandings you have done all your life. Let alone life, count your misunderstandings in a day and then multiply them with 365. There will be infinite mistakes in just one year. Guess the mistakes made in all the past years? It is then you will have your mountain of sins hiding in heaps. We think it is average for us to make mistakes at that point of time. But isn't it natural for the other person too to make mistakes? Why are you not make to take on him with the same look you forgave yourself? When you uprise oneness with all the beings just about you, you will never ever disapprove a being in your life.

Learn to forgive the people whom you take on as enemies. Hate the hate and not the person. Hate the wickedness but not the sinner. If attainable, help him mastered his weakness and mistakes. If you try to correct the person, he will be careful not to make mistake only in your presence. But if you proper the sins or his mistakes, he will never take over them before any person in his life.

God makes and forgives; Man causes and forgets. Man is the innovation of God and so ought to continue incarnation of forgiveness. But he is passing in the some other. When God is inclined to forgive our choice sins, why can't we try to forgive our enemies? No person is precious of rejection. In turn, reject his terrible attitude and try to change him towards good. Lead a life as his brother as you are all children of God.

Life is a rainbow of some other colors. Even if we don't like any color, we can't separated it from the rainbow. Similarly life is a mixture of another preferences and various personalities we come crossways. Some are easy and some are bitter. Yet life has to go on with all of them within it. Man is a boat sinking and floating with sorrowfulness and happiness in the ocean of Life. They are indivisible. Man is born to accept whatever life bestows on him; not to reject. When he learns to receive all beings in his trace of Love, there pass on be God at the other end of his Life's journey just waiting to accept him in his heart bubbling with grace and love which consults endless bliss on Man. - 15784