Wednesday, November 19, 2008

Save Your Relationship With These 3 Counter intuitive Techniques

By Tim Jackson

Trying to save a relationship can be a very difficult thing to do. There is always the worry that you'll make one wrong move and lose the person you love forever.

The Problem when trying to save a relationship, is that what feels like the right thing to do, is often the wrong thing. You see in most cases we should always follow the 'counter intuitive path'. For example when we feel like calling is when we should probably stay cool instead, and when we feel like pouring our hearts out is when we should really put a lid on it.

As a warning, the techniques you're about to discover you may have never seen before and at first glance may look and feel wrong, but have been proven time and again to be effective in even what seems the most complicated situations.

Save My Relationship (Counter intuitive) Technique #1

The first technique you need to use is to agree with and accept the fact that your ex has broken up with you. This can be very difficult to do and the chances are good that you will have a bit of an internal battle before you're able to do so.

It can definitely help to understand why you need to accept the breakup, and how it can help you get back together. The main reason is because you need to give your ex time to respect and miss you again. The chances are that they are mad or upset with you at the moment, especially if you've been nagging them about getting back together.

Save My Relationship (Counter intuitive) Technique #2

The second technique proven to work is to cut off all communication. Wait!... I bet you're about ready to close your browser down right now! But Hold on, because this technique really does work. It helps you to accept the breakup and is the action that shows your ex you that you are serious.

You see by not communicating you are allowing your ex time to miss you and time to get over the reasons for breaking up in the first place. If you crowd their space the reasons will only explode. This space will be good for your mental health as well, and will help you to think clearly and clear your own mind. It also sets you up for the next technique.

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