Questions, questions and more questions! They are the most interesting thing that we can ask when we want to learn about someone else.
Dale Carnegie in his best-selling book, "How to win friends and influence people" talks about the power of asking interesting questions to show that we are interested in connecting with someone else.
Have you been to a party and been the one asking all the questions and doing all the listening? If you have, you will probably agree that the other person thought that the conversation was quite interesting. You probably did less that 20% of the speaking but you got 100% of the credit!
If you are a guy and ask careful questions from a lady, you will often find yourself jumping to last-base, thus saving yourself a lot of legwork trying to build rapport with her. Asking questions and listening is one of the most naturally flattering things you can do to anyone.
If you're a lady and want to stroke a guy's ego and make him feel good, then just ask lots of questions and then listen to the answers. You will have the guy on a string from there on!
Despite the ego-focused side of asking and listening there is a genuine side as well. Because the people who are genuinely interested in someone else and ask great questions are the people who are always popular and well liked. Faking interest is the worst thing you can do. And at the end of the day, if you are not a natural listener then put yourself to the test and practice. You will start to learn SO much about so many things and you will discover parts of people that are just SO interesting to learn about.
Here's 21 questions to ask a guy or girl to get conversation moving. They have been written from a female perspective, however just switch them around if you are a guy and want to use them. If nothing else it will get you thinking about your own questions - which are always better.
Here's 21 questions to ask a guy or a girl
1. If you are working as a waiter and one of your customers was really rude, would you spit in their soup or even think to do this?
2. What was your favourite cartoon character as a kid and why did you enjoy them?
3. If you had the chance to choose 5 people to invite to dinner - real of fictional - who would you invite and why?
4. If in an instant you could become an invisible man, where would you go and what would you do?
5. If someone were to make a comedy show about part of your life, which part would they script and what would be found in the script?
6, What was your fondest television character when you were a young child? What was it that you liked about them?
7. If you had a chance to go back in time and do something that you feel you should have done what would that be?
8. What's the most funniest experience you have had in your entire life?
9. Have you ever had a date with a person that is much fatter or slimmer than you and when you saw them for the first time what dod you think?
10. How old were you when you had your first proper date? Did you get to kiss them and if so was it a French kiss?
11. What was the worst lie you have ever told in your life? Did you get caught out?
12. If you were suddenly turned into a woman for a day, how would you spend that day?
13. If you do not like someone do you show it or pretend that you like them?
14. What is more important to you in a woman - good looks or intelligence?
Time to get a little more personal! Maybe you should wait till you have had a few more drinks before asking some of these!
15. Have you ever been caught with your pants down in a public place - if so what were you doing?
16. What's the difference between sex and making love and which do you prefer?
17. If you could change the age that you lost your virginity, would you?
18. What are your biggest sexual turn-ons and turn-offs?
19. Have you ever cheated on your partner? Did they ever find out? If so, what happened?
20. Has anyone ever caught you masturbating? If they did what did you do and who was it?
21. Have you ever been to an orgy with more than two other people? If so did you have sex or just watch? - 15784
Dale Carnegie in his best-selling book, "How to win friends and influence people" talks about the power of asking interesting questions to show that we are interested in connecting with someone else.
Have you been to a party and been the one asking all the questions and doing all the listening? If you have, you will probably agree that the other person thought that the conversation was quite interesting. You probably did less that 20% of the speaking but you got 100% of the credit!
If you are a guy and ask careful questions from a lady, you will often find yourself jumping to last-base, thus saving yourself a lot of legwork trying to build rapport with her. Asking questions and listening is one of the most naturally flattering things you can do to anyone.
If you're a lady and want to stroke a guy's ego and make him feel good, then just ask lots of questions and then listen to the answers. You will have the guy on a string from there on!
Despite the ego-focused side of asking and listening there is a genuine side as well. Because the people who are genuinely interested in someone else and ask great questions are the people who are always popular and well liked. Faking interest is the worst thing you can do. And at the end of the day, if you are not a natural listener then put yourself to the test and practice. You will start to learn SO much about so many things and you will discover parts of people that are just SO interesting to learn about.
Here's 21 questions to ask a guy or girl to get conversation moving. They have been written from a female perspective, however just switch them around if you are a guy and want to use them. If nothing else it will get you thinking about your own questions - which are always better.
Here's 21 questions to ask a guy or a girl
1. If you are working as a waiter and one of your customers was really rude, would you spit in their soup or even think to do this?
2. What was your favourite cartoon character as a kid and why did you enjoy them?
3. If you had the chance to choose 5 people to invite to dinner - real of fictional - who would you invite and why?
4. If in an instant you could become an invisible man, where would you go and what would you do?
5. If someone were to make a comedy show about part of your life, which part would they script and what would be found in the script?
6, What was your fondest television character when you were a young child? What was it that you liked about them?
7. If you had a chance to go back in time and do something that you feel you should have done what would that be?
8. What's the most funniest experience you have had in your entire life?
9. Have you ever had a date with a person that is much fatter or slimmer than you and when you saw them for the first time what dod you think?
10. How old were you when you had your first proper date? Did you get to kiss them and if so was it a French kiss?
11. What was the worst lie you have ever told in your life? Did you get caught out?
12. If you were suddenly turned into a woman for a day, how would you spend that day?
13. If you do not like someone do you show it or pretend that you like them?
14. What is more important to you in a woman - good looks or intelligence?
Time to get a little more personal! Maybe you should wait till you have had a few more drinks before asking some of these!
15. Have you ever been caught with your pants down in a public place - if so what were you doing?
16. What's the difference between sex and making love and which do you prefer?
17. If you could change the age that you lost your virginity, would you?
18. What are your biggest sexual turn-ons and turn-offs?
19. Have you ever cheated on your partner? Did they ever find out? If so, what happened?
20. Has anyone ever caught you masturbating? If they did what did you do and who was it?
21. Have you ever been to an orgy with more than two other people? If so did you have sex or just watch? - 15784
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