Thursday, February 12, 2009

How A Woman Enjoys Being Kissed

By Joseph Matthews

Nothing beats good kissing when it comes to keeping a woman's attraction towards you intact.

I'm serious - if you aren't good at this she might just go looking elsewhere. Cruel, but true. She might not even return your phone calls if you fail the "kiss test."

Here's a secret... a woman often judges a man's potential based on how well he kisses her!

The first kiss with a girl is very important for that reason. So it's important to make a positive impression with a good and memorable kiss.

So how does a guy make the first kiss one to remember?

I'm going to share a little secret with you.

It's a secret that I talk about all the time, but very few men really know about.

The secret is ANTICIPATION.

Anticipation is an incredibly important concept when it comes to impressing a woman.

Now, I believe that it's important to incorporate it into every part of your interactions with a woman - but this is especially true when it comes to the art of kissing.

If you really don't know how to kiss a woman, then I have a recommendation:

START SLOW, THEN KISS HER LIKE SHE KISSES YOU.

Here's how to mix this strategy with that of Anticipation...

When you decided to start to kiss her, try this: start to kiss her, but when your lips touch hers, STOP!

Move your lips across hers, back and forth, brushing a bit, then pull back.

I recommend looking into her eyes and smiling at this point.

Okay, now you'll probably be sitting there thinking, "Why the heck didn't I just kiss her?" But bear with me here...

She'll probably be sitting there tingling all over, and feeling like she wants to kiss you more!

But, play it cool and lean back. Talk with her a little more.

A few minutes later, touch her hair. Lean over to kiss her again. This time, go VERY slowly, gently press your lips against hers. Hold them there for a moment, and feel how she responds.

If she kisses you the same way, then just stop, lean back, and relax again for a few minutes.

The next time you kiss her, open your mouth just a little bit, and see if she does the same.

Do this a couple of times.

After awhile, she'll begin to escalate the kisses in anticipation. She'll be the one initiating it.

At this point, stop her. Push her away, and smile.

It's all about anticipation!

Just keep mirroring how she's kissing you as things get more and more intense. This is a great way to "learn" how to kiss, and she'll enjoy it, because you'll be doing exactly what she likes! - 15784

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